Co-Parenting Method

Discover co-parenting mastery

We went from one passionate co-parent on a mission in her kitchen (me) to thousands of parents around the world transforming their families and living their best lives—no drama, no stress, just thriving children and peaceful co-parenting.

Say ‘yes’ to thriving as co-parents

Why does so much co-parenting advice focus on the negative? Don’t talk openly. Don’t compromise. Don’t expect co-operation. Just grit your teeth, live with tension, and hope your children turn out fine by the time they’re adults. Here’s a radical thought: What if co-parenting was about saying “yes”?

Living a life of conflict is a tragedy

The Co-Parenting Method isn’t about survival—there are plenty of resources out there teaching you how to just “get through” co-parenting by avoiding tough conversations or accepting ongoing conflict as normal. I wholeheartedly disagree.

9 years, one co-parenting book, tens of thousands of readers, hundreds of clients later, I can teach you exactly how to massively improve your co-parenting relationship, whether that be completely changing your mindset about co-parenting, recognising what’s in your control and what’s not, or putting in place strong and fair boundaries. 

It all started with my own journey…

I started this journey in 2009 when my marriage collapsed, and overnight I became a co-parent. I remember sitting in my kitchen not knowing where to turn for help, and experiencing firsthand the emotional and psychological toll that difficult co-parenting can have on parents and children alike, I decided there had to be a better way. I immersed myself in research (lived and learnt), understanding mindsets, learning about how we interact as humans, and personal development to build a methodology that not only hugely improved my son’s life but went on to change the lives of countless others.

The mindset of effective co-parenting

Understanding co-parenting isn’t just about logistics—it’s about mindset. Once you master the mindset of effective, positive co-parenting, everything else becomes clearer and easier. My approach teaches you precisely how to achieve that shift, transforming your co-parenting relationship into one that positively impacts you, your children, and everyone involved.

My simple—but effective—principles are what drive your new best co-parenting life.

A single difficult exchange won’t define your co-parenting future. But learning how to effectively communicate, manage emotions, and establish healthy boundaries with your co-parent will. Focus on the big picture—creating lasting harmony for your children. Ask questions that improve your children’s long-term happiness, not ones that dwell on short-term conflicts.

A healthy and calm co-parenting life can mean picking up your kids after school. Or confidently handling difficult conversations with your co-parent. It can be creating joyful moments during shared holidays or having peaceful weekends without stress. You decide. Your best co-parenting life is yours to choose.

I’ve helped many hundreds of co-parents transform their relationships, communicate more effectively, and create a stable, positive environment for their children. Whether your goal is peaceful, stable co-parenting or building a genuinely supportive relationship with your co-parent, we can help you get there.

What if you could invest more energy in your children’s happiness, your personal growth, or your emotional well-being? You can—once you stop wasting energy on things that don’t matter in the long term.

Trying to control everything will make you ill. If your co-parent has different parenting styles to you, so what? As long as it’s not harming the kids. It’s the on-going conflict between you and your co-parent that damages them.

You don’t need all the answers to improve your co-parenting situation. It’s okay to make mistakes. Focus on making meaningful progress and keep moving forward.

Drama-free interactions are better than stressful exchanges. Trust the proven process.

Don’t wait for circumstances to change or someone else to rescue you. Take control of your co-parenting journey and create the environment you and your children deserve.

Your relationships, communication, and boundaries are unique to you. While co-parenting comes with challenges, it also offers the opportunity to create a strong, stable, and supportive environment for your child.

Here, you’ll find practical, effective strategies to help you navigate co-parenting with confidence – so you can build a future that works for everyone.

Stop saying things like ‘It will never get better’ or ‘We just can’t communicate.’ A positive co-parenting relationship empowers you to dream bigger, make deeper connections, and provide a thriving environment for your children.

What’s the point of always being ‘right’ if you’re also always anxious and stressed? Your best co-parenting life isn’t found in endless disputes—it’s found in your family’s experiences, your personal peace, and your children’s well-being.

No-‘BS’ co-parenting strategies

If you’re looking for quick fixes, advice to endlessly endure conflict, or vague encouragement to “just stay positive”, you’re in the wrong place. But if you’re ready to adopt proven, practical strategies and tools that have helped thousands of co-parents build healthier, happier relationships—you’re exactly where you need to be.

I loved how this programme wasn’t just theory—it’s full of real-life examples and actionable advice. The step-by-step method makes co-parenting feel doable, even in tough situations. I wish it had come into my life sooner!

— Priya Sharma

Canada

Before reading this book, I felt like I was failing as a co-parent. It gave me practical steps to create a stable environment for my children, even when things between me and my ex aren’t perfect. I finally feel like I’m doing right by my kids.

— David Reynolds

USA

The emotional tools in Marcie’s programme were a game-changer. I didn’t realize how much my own emotions were getting in the way of healthy co-parenting. Now, I can manage my reactions better and focus on what truly matters—my child’s happiness.

— Amina Ndlovu

South Africa

I was bought this book by a friend, and thank goodness I was. I used to think co-parenting meant constant compromise and stress. The book showed me how to set clear boundaries while still being cooperative. It has given me the confidence to navigate co-parenting without feeling overwhelmed or guilty.

— Raj Mehta

India

Marcie’s Six Steps programme changed the way I approach co-parenting. Instead of constant arguments, we now have a structured way to communicate that actually works. My kids are thriving because they see us working as a team, even though we’re no longer together.

— Emily Lowie

UK

The practical steps outlined in the programme made co-parenting manageable and even enjoyable. Highly recommend it to any separated parents.

— Alex Ripley 

Ireland

Implementing this method transformed our family dynamics. Our children are happier, and we communicate better than ever.

— Jordan and Taylor Barlow

UK