Category: Blog

Why Co-Parenting Matters – Even If You Can’t Stand Your Ex Because your child needs a system, not a friendship. Let’s say the quiet part out loud: sometimes your ex drives you up the wall. Their tone, their choices, their timing, their sheer ability to make a simple handover feel like a hostage negotiation. If… Continue reading Why Co-Parenting Matters – Even If You Can’t Stand Your Ex

It’s not in your head: The mental load of Co-Parenting is real Have you ever felt like you’re the one remembering everything, planning everything, holding everything? You’re not imagining it. The mental load of co-parenting is real, and it’s often completely invisible. What is the mental load? It’s the behind-the-scenes effort that keeps everything running… Continue reading It’s Not in Your Head: The Mental Load of Co-Parenting Is Real

Why Co-Parenting feels so emotionally exhausting, and what you can do about it If you’ve ever collapsed into bed after a long day of parenting and thought, “Why am I so tired,  even when nothing big happened?”,  this blog is for you. Co-parenting doesn’t just demand your time and energy. It demands your emotional labour… Continue reading When Co-Parenting Feels So Emotionally Exhausting, and What You Can Do About It

When You and Your Ex Disagree on What’s Best for Your Child Few things are more emotionally charged than disagreeing with your ex about what’s best for your child. Whether it’s screen time, schools, bedtimes or boundaries, it can feel like every disagreement is a battle to win. But child-centred co-parenting isn’t about who’s right… Continue reading When You and Your Ex Disagree on What’s Best for Your Child

What Co-Parenting Choices Really Matter to Kids (and How to Get Them Right) Co-parenting is full of choices, big and small. But which ones actually impact your child’s wellbeing? It can feel overwhelming trying to get it right when emotions are high and clarity is low. This blog helps you zoom in on the everyday… Continue reading What Co-Parenting Choices Really Matter to Kids (and How to Get Them Right)

How to Stop a Text Battle Before It Starts That one comment. That tone. That twist of the knife you didn’t see coming.When co-parenting triggers you, it can feel impossible to stay calm — especially when the same patterns keep playing out. But your words matter. This blog is here to help you slow down,… Continue reading What to Say (and Not Say) When You’re Triggered

How to Stop a Text Battle Before It Starts A message pops up. Your stomach tightens. Your mind starts racing. Before you know it, you’re drafting a reply in your head — or already typing one. Sound familiar? This blog is about what to do before the spiral begins — and how to manage digital… Continue reading How to Stop a Text Battle Before It Starts

How to Set Boundaries With Your Ex (Without Feeling Like the ‘Bad Parent’) Setting boundaries with your ex can feel emotionally complicated. You want to stay calm. Be fair. Put your child first. But there’s that gnawing voice inside: “If I say no, will they think I’m difficult?”“What if my child gets caught in the… Continue reading How to Set Boundaries With Your Ex (Without Feeling Like the ‘Bad Parent’)

Co-Parenting Boundaries That Actually Work: 5 Scripts to Reduce Conflict and Protect Your Peace Feeling drained by constant communication stress with your ex? You’re not alone. Many separated parents struggle with blurred boundaries, unclear expectations, and a constant sense of being “on call.” But boundaries aren’t about being cold or confrontational. They’re about clarity. And… Continue reading Co-Parenting Boundaries That Actually Work: 5 Scripts to Reduce Conflict and Protect Your Peace

How to Create Calm in the Chaos of Co-Parenting The Emotional Cost of Chaos Co-parenting after separation isn’t just about schedules and handovers. It’s navigating emotional landmines while trying to stay grounded for your child. If you’re constantly walking on eggshells, reacting to texts with a racing heart, or replaying tense conversations long after they’re… Continue reading How to Create Calm in the Chaos of Co-Parenting